AT THE POOL WE'VE ALL GOT BODIES

At the pool we’ve all got bodies.
Elsewhere we’ve got brands
we’ve got fabrications
we’ve got lulu lemon butt lifting pants.

At the pool we’ve all got bodies
in trunks and clam shells—
some working with flaps and pleats pleading
to conceal, others an experiment in Swiss minimalism

and risk management—
all of us dealing with the unalterable fact
that we’ve all got what we’ve got, that
at the pool

we’ve all got bodies:
bouncy bodies
bodies that need brushing
fluorescent white, white bodies
energized child bodies
hot-tubbed tired bodies
bodies

all of them absorbed in being here!—
not spiritual ghosts,
not online avatars,
but us, at the pool
with splashing, floating,
leaping bodies.

Lance Odegard

WE ARE PROPHETS OF A FUTURE THAT IS NOT OUR OWN

It helps, now and then, to step back and take a long view.

The Kingdom is not only beyond our efforts, it is even beyond our vision. We accomplish in our lifetime only a tiny fraction of the magnificent enterprise that is God's work. Nothing we do is complete, which is a way of saying that the Kingdom always lies beyond us.

No statement says all that could be said. No prayer fully expresses our faith. No confession brings perfection. No pastoral visit brings wholeness. No program accomplishes the Church's mission. No set of goals and objectives includes everything.

This is what we are about.

We plant the seeds that one day will grow. We water seeds already planted, knowing that they hold future promise. We lay foundations that will need further development. We provide yeast that produces effects far beyond our capabilities.

We cannot do everything, and there is a sense of liberation in realizing that. This enables us to do something, and to do it very well. It may be incomplete, but it is a beginning, a step along the way, an opportunity for the Lord's grace to enter and do the rest. We may never see the end results, but that is the difference between the master builder and the worker.

We are workers, not master builders; ministers, not messiahs.

We are prophets of a future that is not our own.

Amen.

This prayer was composed by Bishop Ken Untener of Saginaw in November 1979 as a reflection on the anniversary of the martyrdom of Bishop Romero. The words of the prayer are commonly attributed to Oscar Romero, but they were never spoken by him.

A STRATEGY FOR CURRENT QUESTIONS

The challenges currently are ever-changing, highly varied, structural as well as contextual and often material. These leave boards and leadership teams asking questions.

The first thing I would do is segment the questions and look for the shared themes. Stating the obvious but bringing your vision and values to this will help.

Our 1st session was recognising our reality, using a “what’s right, what’s wrong, what’s confused and what’s missing” matrix - it was really helpful to bring out the team’s reflections on where we were at. We then identified the key themes from everything that had been written down - we came up with 8.

Our 2nd session has us focus on imagining and visualising where we wanted to see things in 3-5 years and then to share those as a team. We captured the key themes and made sure they mapped back against the 8 themes we identified in our current reality.

Our 3rd session we identified 5 priorities to focus on for the next 6 months, as our first step towards that 3-5 year growth plan. Again - we mapped it back against the 8 themes we identified at the start of the day to see if we were addressing them all.

This was for a strategy day but I think it also can be a 15 minute exercise, or a 3 day exercise. 

  • Ask what’s right, wrong, confused and missing on this question

  • Ask where you want to be by xx period

  • Make a plan for immediate action

However, the framing of all of that through your vision and values is key - otherwise you can’t prioritise, you don’t know where to allocate scarce resources and you will likely be fragmented rather than focused.

Every one of the questions screams for attention. What’s more important in this moment? Ask yourself something I heard recently - if I don’t address this will it be the issue that sinks the company? Now, I aspire to more than avoiding sinking the company - but grabbing a sense of perspective is helpful. 

I try the following with my children when they can’t decide which sweet from the box they want - I ask them if they had to remove one, which one would they put back in the box. Very quickly we get down to a choice of 2. I think that approach works with these questions - if you had to remove 1 that is not an immediate issue, which one would it be? Keep doing that until there are hardly any left and then analyse the issue, visualise the goal and make a short term action plan. 

Momentum over almost everything.

Leading right now is tiring, it’s confusing and it’s pressured. With clarity of vision and values and using some simple diagnostic and process tools, a lot of the stressful questions can turn into a plan of attack very quickly.

Duncan McFadzean
The Weekly Distillation

THE FIRST PRINCIPLE & FOUNDATION

The Goal of our life is to live with God forever. God, who loves us, gave us life.
Our own response of love allows God’s life to flow into us without limit.

All the things in this world are gifts from God, presented to us so that we can know God more easily and make a return of love more readily. We appreciate and use all these gifts of God insofar as they help us to develop as loving persons. If any of these gifts become the center of our lives, they displace God and hinder our growth toward our goal.

In everyday life, then, we must hold ourselves in balance before all of these created gifts insofar as we have a choice and are not bound by some obligation. We should not fix our desires on health or sickness, wealth or poverty, success or failure, a long life or a short one. For everything has the potential of calling forth in us a deeper response to our life in God.

Our only desire and our one choice should be this: I want and I choose what better leads to God’s deepening his life and love in me.

St. Ignatius of Loyola
paraphrased by David L. Fleming, S.J.

A TESTAMENT

I imagine that today I am to die. I ask for time to be alone and write down for my friends a sort of testament for which the points that follow could serve as chapter titles.

1. These things I have loved in life: things I have tasted, looked at, smelled, heard, touched.
2. These experiences I have cherished:
3. These ideas have brought me liberation:
4. These beliefs I have outgrown:
5. These convictions I have lived by:
6. These are the things I have lived for:
7. These insights I have gained in the school of life: insights into God, the world, human nature, Jesus Christ, love, religion, prayer.
8. These risks I took, these dangers I have courted:
9. These sufferings have seasoned me:
10. These lessons life has taught me:
11. These influences have shaped my life: persons, occupations, books, events.
12. These Scripture texts have lit my path:
13. These things I regret about my life:
14. These are my life’s achievements:
15. These persons are enshrined within my heart:
16. These are my unfulfilled desires:

I choose an ending for this document: A poem—my own or someone else’s; or a prayer; a sketch or a picture from a magazine; a Scripture text; or anything that I judge would be an apt conclusion to my testament.

Anthony De Mello, S.J.
Hearts on Fire, Praying with Jesuits

LOVE AFTER LOVE

The time will come
when, with elation
you will greet yourself arriving
at your own door, in your own mirror
and each will smile at the other's welcome,

and say, sit here. Eat.
You will love again the stranger who was your self.
Give wine. Give bread. Give back your heart
to itself, to the stranger who has loved you

all your life, whom you ignored
for another, who knows you by heart.
Take down the love letters from the bookshelf,

the photographs, the desperate notes,
peel your own image from the mirror.
Sit. Feast on your life.

Derek Walcott