DON'T DO IT.

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Don't do it. Get out of it any way you can for both yourselves. You would never dream where the path you have chosen is going to lead you. 

So how can I wish undone the thing they are on the threshold of doing without wishing myself undone? I would have not missed the shot at the world that their misalliance gave me. 

Frederick Buechner, The Eyes of the Heart